5 Life lessons I learned during the last 3 months.

Bergini Francis
1 min readFeb 27, 2023

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  1. Don’t do things as a means to an end.

Doing things as a means to an end or in other words you can say, doing just to finish them like washing clothes or wearing clothes could make you bored and give a feeling of not interested in doing them. But when you do it for the sake of doing them, you will not get bored and time flies.

2. Best solution for any problem is to accept the problem.

You may say, yeah everybody knows that they have a problem. Knowing and accepting are not the same. I can know that my problem is that my mother is judgmental but accepting that my mother is judgmental is different. When I accept she is judgmental, I don’t get angry when she judges me. Think about this deeply.

3. Being kind is more important than being right.

Being right may satisfy our ego but being kind saves our energy and give us peace of mind which is more important than satisfying our ego.

4. Doing small things for a long period gives amazing results.

5. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.

We have a lot of things in our minds to say and do, but due to some form of discomfort that arises due to saying and doing these things, we don’t do them. In fact, that is the cost of these things we wish to do.

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Bergini Francis
Bergini Francis

Written by Bergini Francis

My articles are mix of life lessons, people, world, science, mind, spirituality and sewing.

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